Opening your heart to someone who’s not opening theirs for you is not healthy, you are exposing yourself and they can take advantage of you especially in relationships. You need to be vulnerable in relationship for growth to happen.¨
Relationship is all about give and take. It’s healthy to stop and ask yourself or reflect if you are given enough. If you are given all your best and not receiving good value back in return is not worth it. The need and want of humans being are insatiable, people will always demand from you irrespective of how much you give to them in your time, kind, finance, emotions, people will burn you out if you don’ t know how to control or know when to stop. Controlling in the sense of managing the situations trying to make the person understand what your capacity can carry.
If you don’t know how to place men, men will displace you, when I mean men I don’t mean man as a male I am referring to both the woman man and the man in biblical terminology. People will always demand from you with no stop and wear you out.
Learn how to know when it’s enough from demanding people who are insatiable in want. Try to make the person understand that you have given your best and that you can’t do more than that, Hence they are not able to manage or acknowledge what you have given to then. Most times you are giving your all to that individual because the person has no capacity to hold or received what you are given to them. As such your impact is not valuable to them so they waste your time and effort.
Oftentimes most people end up given their very best part to the wrong person in instead of quitting the relationship and finding the right person to give all their wonderful pieces to. Lets be realistic here talking about given your all to the wrong person I mean your heart, your mind and your soul your most valuable assets in the human body. If that area is not carefully protected its could be dangerous and it can lead to heartbreaks, heart attack and depression. So therefore be aware to protect that area from disappointment in order for it not to occur.
Opening your heart to someone who’s not opening theirs for you is not healthy, you are exposing yourself and they can take advantage of you especially in relationships. You need to be vulnerable in relationship for growth to happen.
¨Don’t give your all to the wrong person or relationships, check the person or check your heart, mind and soul if they align to the persons personality before you can commit to them. The best pieces of you should be kept sacred and given to people that cares and know your value.¨
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